I have some pretty heavy stuff on my mind and heart, but I will start with the tablescape so that you can quit reading after that if you are not interested in those types of things.
Kathleen is once again hosting one of her famous challenges. This time she wants us to set a table that says, “Farewell to Summer.” I am not really sure if my table qualifies…it may say hello rather than goodbye. I live in central MS; the temps here are in the nineties with the heat indexes in the 100s. We will have summer for a good while yet. Football has started, and it is very hot and sometimes dangerous to be on the field. A tragedy at a metro school game last week sobered up everyone to the dangers of dehydration, sodium loss, and heat exhaustion. While coaches and school administration take great care of their players, not everything can be predicted. Pray for the family of a young man who lost his life tragically after a seizure and brain swelling last weekend during and after the game. I will not give any identifying details, as it could be any young person out there on any field here in the sweltering Southeast. And to all of you, be careful!
Sorry, I did not mean to get so preachy and serious…let’s visit the beach! I purchased these beachy napkin rings quite some time ago and am just now using them. I love this great sand dollar.
The sea horse looks great on the aqua napkin which match my placemats with the same delicate watery colors.
The sea turtle is an endangered marine animal, I think. I learned a lot about these turtles and the lengths that people go to in order to protect their nests of eggs by reading Pat Conroy, one of my favorite authors. Hopefully, these animals will eventually be taken off the endangered species list.
Of course, what would the beach be without starfish? Love this napkin ring set! I see a lot of using it in summer tables of the future.
I placed my Pfaltzgraff Seaside plates on top of a plain white Nikko plate for emphasis. I love how the colors of the plate blend with the placemat colors. That is why I put the white plate first, so that it will stand out and not be lost on the placemat. I still enjoy my Dollar Tree shell plates from a few years ago. They are perfect for this last table of summer.
You may remember earlier in the summer that I found these cute beach-themed plates at a local flea market (not mine). I know that I will really enjoy using them for years to come.
You don’t see flatware at the place settings? I decided to put my aqua flatware in a chrome caddy that my mother gave me recently. I like using a flatware caddy sometimes, especially when I want to evoke a casual attitude.
These goblets were finds at our flea market. It was hard to find a true aqua goblet. The way that the soft green stem is gradually variegated from the clear bowl part of the glass gives the illusion of the varying shades of blue and green found in water. I really like the way they look. I think that they add to the theme without being too over the top.
You have seen all of my centerpiece elements before. Most came from Dollar General. I love the beach chair votive holders…probably among my favorite pieces. The vase, shell votive holder, and shells were all purchased at Dollar General on clearance last year. They are great tablescaping items to pull out for summer tables.
The seashell teapot also came from our flea market a while back. I love the way that it helps to carry out the theme, and I loved the price. Suffice it to say that it was very, very cheap. Very. I should be able to resell it at a profit if I ever get tired of using it.
The shells and blue bead to symbolize water scattered on beach towel runner finish off the look. Farewell, summer…we’ll miss ya!
Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21
So now for the heavy part….David and I recently went into a hoarded house. The neighbor of our relatives had been hoarding for many years. She died a few months ago, and her family is finally ready to start dealing with the house. Our kinfolks are friends and are helping where they can. We were offered a look at some of the things that have been found so far to purchase for our booth at the flea market.
We knew it was bad, but had no idea how bad until we walked in the door. I watch a lot of the hoarding shows, so I thought I was prepared. I was not. Pathways had been cleared so that we could get to each room. The main rooms had fairly clear spots so that we could look at some things. I don’t even want to think about what it all looked at before these spaces had been somewhat cleared.
All of the other rooms were hoarded out. We literally could only stand in the doorways and stare, openmouthed. All we could see were boxes, sacks, stacks of stuff, too much to name.
I was there to look at Christmas items, and look I did. I liked some table runners and placemats. As I began going through them, I was amazed. All were still in their store packaging, never used, and there were multiples of every item. For every table runner that I liked and kept for myself, I took 2 or 3 more just like it to sell.
I spied a nativity scene, brand new in the box, sticking out of a box on top of the hoard in one room (there was no way that I could go through boxes on the bottom of the hoard). I tilted the box a little so that I could pick up the Nativity. I did not know whether to laugh or cry. There were at least 10, maybe more, identical nativity scenes… brand new, in the box, never used… in that box. One of our group mentioned that we could open a Fred’s with this hoard, and they were so right.
I picked out a few other items, but could not look at things like I normally would at an estate or garage sale. Not just because I could not get to them, but also because I just felt so sad. I kept walking from room to room saying, “This just breaks my heart.”
David and I talked a lot about it later. Shouldn’t someone’s possessions give them pleasure? We recalled a time many years ago when we were visiting David’s grandmother in her apartment at her retirement home. She had her family pictures, her blue bird collection, and her miniature colored bottles, among other things, showcased around her home. Once she said, “David, I enjoy my things.”
Shouldn’t that be the way it is? Shouldn’t we “enjoy our things” and not be weighed down by them?
Most of you know that I am a Dave Ramsey fan, and he talks a lot about “stuffitis.” Dave says that “stuffitis” inhibits our financial freedom and keeps us from fully living the way we should. One of the first things that he tells people to do is to purge the “stuff.” Get rid of the boats, the 4-wheelers, all the extra things that we don’t need and that are tying up our money and keeping us broke.
He is right, but this weekend’s experience hit me in the face that there is so much more to “stuffitis” than its contributing to our financial bondage.
This woman’s “stuff” was inhibiting not only her financial health, but her physical and mental health as well. I can assure you that nothing was clean in that home and that there was no way anything in there was healthy…well, I guess it was to the roaches and termites.
Every single part of her life was negatively affected by the importance she put on the hoard…relationships, money, health, time…I could go on and on.
Most of you know that when I purchase items at an estate sale or thrift store, that I love going through them… cleaning, sorting, identifying, pricing, and usually even photographing for the blog. As I washed and sorted the items that I brought home this weekend, I took no pleasure in the task. All I could feel was that overwhelming sense of sadness washing over me. Sometimes I even felt myself close to tears.
Most of you know that I have a rule when it comes to shopping for my tablescaping and decorating items….something comes in; something else goes out. I have firmly stuck to this rule in the past almost 3 years since I began the tablescaping hobby. I now have an even firmer resolve to not waiver from my determination.
Thanks for sticking it out and reading all of my ramblings. If you get nothing else from reading this post, please understand that treasures are to be stored up in heaven, nowhere else.
I leave you with a paraphrase of my late grandmother-in-law, who was very wise.
Enjoy your things!
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